Showing posts with label resolution. Show all posts
Showing posts with label resolution. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Resolutions

It is that time of year when everyone makes resolutions. My sister has a great list here. My blog-friend Amanda has a fabulous one here. We have a new year and a fresh start, so it only makes sense to resolve to do things differently. I've never made resolutions. I've never said, "I'm going to...every day. "

I'd like to exercise every day, I'd like to be a fantastic wife and mother every day. But, I know for me that "every day" is unrealistic. It seems to me that when we put terms on like "every day" we are setting ourselves up for failure. I am in no way knocking those of you who have made daily goals, nor am I saying they aren't achievable. I'm actually rooting for you, I want you to be successful with your goals. I'm saying that for me, if I put the words "every day" in, that when I miss a day or two, I'll use that as the excuse to drop the whole goal. So, I'm making my resolutions in broad terms. In 2009, I'd like to:

  • Be a better person.
  • Be more positive towards myself and others.
  • Exercise more.
  • Laugh more, worry less.
  • Have fun with my kids and husband.
  • Make a difference to one person.
  • Read a few "books of substance."
  • Spend less, save more.

Those shouldn't be too hard, should they?